Many become deceptive, hiding emotions they haven’t or never dealt with...Consequently it spills out and makes victims out of themselves and their closest ones.
Sadly our society currently preaches ignore, run, and forwards without fixing things...wisdom tells otherwise.
Marriage is a marriage of everything...
For love and positivity, everything else is second.
Dare I say it...even family... If your family don’t support your heart and inspiration,
Then don’t listen to them over those issues.
May seem normal for them to limit you and attempt to think for you but it’s actually emotional neglect.
The heart seems to know....
& will naturally be drawn to partners that have nothing to do with your misguided family, culture and all too often man’s religions.
You will make your love life a misery to listen to advice that’s not of the heart.
Love comes direct from god, love is god, to us.
There are 99 problems and we a got all of them...
What a calamity we live in today...
Where forwards away from our wreckage
is the only thing intellectually doable and 🤦🏻♂️ socially acceptable
For that ☝️
We can be incredibly fake nowadays...
Funny thing is we actually think this is
proactive about being “positive”...
Can’t drive but I’ll learn whilst crashing...
Kill it until I make it...hearts that is...consequences?
Ask the BBC, they even got some numbers.
Word of advice...
If they avoid issues, stop right there...
Create momentum to solve it.
A truly positive person is one that tidies as they go, with care and attention.
Hate to have to say it but...
Treat love with the same diligence that is asked of you...
Don’t forget ❤️💯
Cannot learn something when it is hidden
Cannot love something when it is hidden
Cannot be loved when it is hidden
Did you know that love is the end of the 🌈 ?
Did you know that the honeymoon is love?
Did you know that it can actually last? ~
Did you know that love isn’t about compromise?
Did you know that love is about improving yourself...
& Not changing the other?
That’s is disrespect
Did you know that you should not demand out of insecurity?
That is the wrong direction
How brave are you?
How honest are you?
How diligent are you?
How humble are?
Do you have pride for self improvement?
Are you healthy?
Do you pursue a passion rather than just serve?
Love requires an aim for perfection to maintain...
The heart will guide...
But the mind must seek wisdom in choice...
Don’t let your lover make demands to change you.
It’s their darker side, unresolved insecurities.
Try best to help them out instead.
It will not be easy.
So good luck.
People that do not deal with their emotions are difficult in love.
Where love is a skill....
It’s never their fault, as they
hide from themselves.
To admit, they would have to reveal
the mess that they conceal inside
which many will never fully do
Instead you’ll get...
Lack of communication
Lack of honesty
Run away and push away responsibilities in difficult times
Addictions - sexual temptations, substances, tv
Not pursuing passion, only serving
Servants of god with no love for god